Most
of family in this world ever had family conflict. It can be between father and
mother, parents and children, or among the children. This case happened in my
family last year. Both of my older brothers have family conflict. It is because
of my second brother’s careless. It was a shocking Sunday morning when my
oldest brother threatened to leave home because of his conflict with my second
brother.
It
was Sunday morning, both of my brothers didn't go to work, so do I. so all of
my family members was at home at that time. My father has some cows which its
corral was near the chicken coop which consist of 1000 of hens on it. At that
time my second brother wanted to help my father to move his cow corral into
another place. Unfortunately, the calf was deliberated and run into under the
chicken coop. it made all of the hens in the coop was very shocked. It made
very loud noise and some of the hens on the coop suddenly died.
Heard
the loudly noise from his chicken coop, my oldest brother looked into the coop.
he was very shocked when he saw all of the hens on the coop was deliberated,
moreover some of them was died. When he knew the root of the problem came from
the calf which was moved by my second brother, he was very angry. He called his
younger brother and scolded him. My second brother is a stubborn person, he didn't keep silent when my oldest brother scolded him. He thought that was not
his fault. Then, they were quarreling. When my father came and asked to stop
quarreling, my oldest brother thought that my father took on my second brother
side. The dispute was not stopped. My oldest brother threatened to leave home.
He put his clothes into his beg while he was crying.
My
father saw my oldest brother put his clothes into his beg. He came and spoke
wisely. He told to both of brothers that every problem has its own solution. My
father talked a lot with them. Finally, the situation became calm. After that,
my father caught the hens which was deliberated and put it into the coop one by
one. But in the other side both of my brothers didn't speak each other for two
days later they were reunite again.
So,
from this shocking situation I learn many things. We don’t need to solve the
problem by using commotion and violence. And also I get an experience that
every single problem has its own solution.